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So i like this guy who I think likes me,and as I was tellin my friends they asked wat is he? and i said human. they laughed , but I always get annoyed wen they ask that. i told them he was black, and they were like y do u like black guys?? I have dated all types of guys, to me it doesnt matter. and they told me..."even though u say it doesnt matter it really does". I dont get y, wats so different besides the skin color? they say its cuz they have bad tempers and started to make up all these steriotypes (if thats how u spell it). i hate wen they do this, I told them its like having a black lady say they will never go out with a mexican because they are drunks. not all mexicans are drunks and not all blacks have bad tempers. i hate it wen hispanics are always sayin stuff about other races but get mad wen its about them.
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Date whoever u wish thats your business.
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If he's a good person, then go right ahead. That's what really matters.
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yea...niggers will really fuck you up.







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Some Hispanic males have a bad temper and feelings of jealousy just like any other insecure man of any race and these so-called friends who lie to by telling you only Black males are violent against women are not truly your friends.... I thinks its time you start cutting some loose ends
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yea...niggers will really fuck you up.







no. jk. do what you want.
that's not funny at all SDX!! La mera neta te pasaste.......



Babygirl, what El Hijo Perdido said is very true. Do find out how he was raised and what his beliefs are. Which that is what you need to do with every guy you meet, weather they are black, hispanic, white, chinese, afghan or what ever their nationality or race.

I'm glad you are able to see past the stereotypes, some people fear what they don't know and start calling names among other things. To me it all comes down to how you were raised, for instance, my husband (who is black) was raised by his mother only but was brought up being very respectful of everyone. He's a avid church goer, which I'm not and that's where we usually clash. He's not a thug but isn't a punk either, he handles his own but is focused in life and what he wants.

What I'm trying to say is that you should get to know him and his family and have him do the same for you. If you like what the way his family is and how they interact then go for it. Its all up to you no matter what other people think.
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Date who you want girl just make sure he treats you right
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you have the freedom to date anyone you want.I started a thread asking if I was racist about likeing brown women so much.I don't care what any buddy think's of my personal prefrence's when it come's to dating..
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It was never said that you can't work through things but its harder on a relationship when your families are different, and I don't mean just color.
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If he's a good person, then go right ahead. That's what really matters.
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i use to go out with a black girl to be honest i like her and every thing buts is her frinds and the people the she hang out with i felt out of place.
and going to a black birthday party,
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when ur friends or fam talk shit about him being black....

just tell em that Jesus Christ was Black! and that he had dreads!
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She should date several guys at one time until she finds the one who is worth her time and energy. She just broke up with her man because he banged a coworker so she shouldn't be getting into a serious relationship soon. Instead take it slow, date several fellas and then pick one
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when ur friends or fam talk shit about him being black....

just tell em that Jesus Christ was Black! and that he had dreads!

Haha! Is that what you say when you want people to zip it?
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Haha! Is that what you say when you want people to zip it?
i find myself saying that a lot when i m drunk...

i just kinda like shouting that phrase...

*JESUS CHRIST HAD DREADS, SO SHAKE EM!*
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when ur friends or fam talk shit about him being black....

just tell em that Jesus Christ was Black! and that he had dreads!
Lmao!!! ur too much freedom

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i find myself saying that a lot when i m drunk...

i just kinda like shouting that phrase...

*JESUS CHRIST HAD DREADS, SO SHAKE EM!*


LMAO!!!!

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when ur friends or fam talk shit about him being black....

just tell em that Jesus Christ was Black! and that he had dreads!
Yep, I agree J.C. was a brotha
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Lmao!!! ur too much freedom





LMAO!!!!
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Yep, I agree J.C. was a brotha

an undercover brotha now thanks to euroccentric interpretations of biblical history
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i think you should date whoever you want regardless of the race. I mean, you want to be happy, and if they (your friends) can't accept that, why tell them about it?
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WHat does that have to really do with things? If he doesnt then and they can not work through it, the relationship ends, plain and simple as that. It is not like they are making a life commitment. It is just bf and gf, sure it can turn into a life long commitment, but SHEESH, to know right away is kind of obsurd to me. But thats just me.

I say do what the hell you want. If that is it makes you happy.
Well let me hip you to something real quick hermano, it's not always that simple.

I will say all people are different and that experiences are different. I've seen many different kinds personally unfold around me.

My best friend is puerto rican and black. I love him like a brother but he unfortunatly has what is refered to as a "Nigga" mentality. If you are to get with someone irreguardless of skin color be careful you don't get with someone with that mentality, although it tends to be more amongst the black community than others. But yet it does carry over into other communities that seem to glorify that particular type of culture.

He would get with women and that was all fine and cool. At that point I was like "more power to him". But as his time went on he would get voloent towards the women he was with. To the point where he actually had her down on the floor with a knife to her throat because she didn't agree with what he was arguing with her about. they were not married just together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Ultimatly he left her with a kid and then bailed on her. But if she would have tried to leave him that would have been met with some kind of violence.

I know that not all people are like that but there are many out there that are like that. And once your in that sort of situation it's real difficult to get out of it. The guy doesn't want to let you go but yet he wants to do what he wants to do and is irresponsible in his actions on many different levels. All too often today you see these women who get involved with those kind of idiots and then end up single with a kid by the dude and then end up having all kinds of trouble with even after he splits.

You may say I am being stereo typical or maybe even racist but I am not politically correct and for some out there this a real truth that if spotted before hand can be quickly and solely avoided. And it carries over into our gente and others too.

I've seen women on the street being physically forced by a black dude that they were with to go back with them when they were trying to leave. Also I've witnessed our own gente whoopin up on his woman in a park in the middle of the night because they were arguing.

I speak from experiences I have witnessed before. It's not pretty, let alone fun to deal with. But my point is that most times the women don't know it until after they are in it. By then it's too late. Sounds crazy but it is true. It's more of a mentality than a skin color but that does have something to do with it in some cases. What I am saying is stay away from people with that mentality. You'll save yourself a lot of problems. Unless that is what your looking for.

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date who you want, If they dont like it oh well they are not the one dating him.. Its just a skin color thats it!
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date who you want, If they dont like it oh well they are not the one dating him.. Its just a skin color thats it!

Wrong.

Race is deeper than skin pigmentation. Race is a cellular matter of DNA.

We are all vastly different mentaly and physicaly and at times even hormonaly.

Ask yourself, if all races were equal then all races would have invented the same things. The capabilities for a race to breed more people of high inteligence differs from race to race.

Think of the races as all having the same template becuase we are all human.
Some races however get added atributes, a little 'extra' benifeit on the side if you will.

Our race independantly invented 4 types of writting, reached the bronze age independantly and had stellar mathematics and engineering techniques.
plus usurping natures power in order to build civilisation in just about every climate known to man.

Think of the races whos civilisations wept as they were consumed by obstacles in climate. Think of the races who were technologicaly stunted not by lack of rescources or religion but by the incapabilities of their inteligence.

Race is real. Sub types are found in all species.
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if you let every little thing thats people say get to you, you will never be happy so do what you want and fuck em all!! lol
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i use to go out with a black girl to be honest i like her and every thing buts is her frinds and the people the she hang out with i felt out of place.
and going to a black birthday party,
I have mostly dated Chicano rucas who are the same races as me and I still feel outta place when I hang out with her familia or friends so it doesn't matter what race you are dating because when you are with your hynas family and friends one can still feel uncomfortable, self-conscious and awkward.
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