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| View Poll Results: it is worse when a significant other cheats with: | |||
| someone they know- a friend |
   
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36 | 52.17% |
| a past relationship |
  
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27 | 39.13% |
| a one night stand |
  
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6 | 8.70% |
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#1
02-01-2007
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what is worse?
If someone cheats on you with a one night stand or if someone cheats on you with a person they know/love???
and why
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02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
but pick one.. do you think you would be more hurt in a certain situation???
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#5
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
I would be JUST AS hurt one way or the other .. I could give a rat's ass if he found love in the act of being unfaithful!!
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#6
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
someone theyve known and love.... and it s been happening continuously...
a one night stand is just one fucken bad decision.... people always make mistakes... i ve been cheated on like that before... i got over it...
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#8
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Re: what is worse?
Cal!
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Hold the person that you love closely if they're next to you The one you love, not the person that'll simply have sex with you Appreciate them to the fullest extent, and then beyond 'Cause you never really know what you got, until it's gone _ IT
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02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
They are all bad and unforgivable. The one that would hurt me the most would be cheating with a loved one. It's just more on a personal level, more emotions and feelings are involved.
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#12
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
so for those voting with a loved one you wouldnt mind that your partner threw a way a whole relationship for one night?
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#13
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
Has this happened to you?
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#14
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Re: what is worse?
NO! im just wondering.
if my partner did cheat on me i would be very very very very upset esp. cuz i really trust that person.
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#16
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
of course both would be hurtful... but i think a one night stand or a simple kiss with someone or whatever, is something that i, personally, can forgive if i really wanna make a relationship... i feel some people, depending on the situation deserve a second chance...
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#17
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Re: what is worse?
i agree, dey screwd it up, n dey gotz 2 go. but i think it hurtz more wen dey cheat wit a friend. cuz a one-night stand, dat wud hurt cuz dey cheated wit sum1, n it mita 'meant nothin' but datz bad. throwin away everythin 4 sum1 dat 'dont mean nethin'. a pazt relationship, u kno thur waz feelingz for da x @ 1 point. dey mite cum bak. u never kno..
but wit dey friend, u trust ur partner wit dey friendz. n dat fact dat dey wud cheat wit a friend, let thoze feelingz grow 4 dem dat shud b 4 u. DAMNZ. datz like, ur not really worth it 2 dem. n not only did dey get da feelingz n let dem b n grow, dey acted on em!! n dat iz like da ultimate betrayal.
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#18
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
cheating is cheating does not matter how or with who! if a person cheats on you he/she didnt love you that much!
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02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
^^^^ i disagree with that...i think that a person can love somebody a lot and still cheat...
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Re: what is worse?
word...
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#21
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Re: what is worse?
I don't understand that lizdlt? Please elaborate? Cuz for ME anyway, when you truly "love" someone - you're committed to them - heart, mind, and body .. it would make me vomit at the touch of another man ..
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Re: what is worse?
i understand i am younger and probably not as experienced with love so i guess i am talking from more of an idealistic or theoretical set of believes...(this is my disclaimer)
i just think though that even if you love a person sometimes you are not near them and temptation happens...it could have just been that moment of loneliness or drunkeness or whatever...and the fact that you did not resist tempation does not say anything about the type of love you feel i might say something about will power but not about love...
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Hold the person that you love closely if they're next to you The one you love, not the person that'll simply have sex with you Appreciate them to the fullest extent, and then beyond 'Cause you never really know what you got, until it's gone _ IT
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#23
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Re: what is worse?
i think tht cheatin isz messed up.. its like the most damaging way to hurt a person that you "love" regardless of the situation..
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 and we continue to love unrequitedly while our actions' consequences bury us in a castle-like coffin to bleed. ..
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#24
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Re: what is worse?
My thought is that way too often, people put themselves in situations where temptation can be a real threat to their relationship .. and in my opinion only, being drunk and cheating is just an excuse.
Thanx for explaining your point of view, lizdlt.
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#25
02-01-2007
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Re: what is worse?
well i know that love and feelings for people have strong holds on us. just_dannie i disagree with the being drunk bit only cause a drunk persons words or actions are a sober persons thoughts. maybe i don't cut no slack because of what happen to me
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