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View Poll Results: it is worse when a significant other cheats with:
someone they know- a friend 36 52.17%
a past relationship 27 39.13%
a one night stand 6 8.70%
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If someone cheats on you with a one night stand or if someone cheats on you with a person they know/love???

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Both to me. Either way you get cheated on...
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One is just as bad as the other!!!!!!!!! I wouldn't stay with someone who cheats for ANY reason!!
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but pick one.. do you think you would be more hurt in a certain situation???
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I would be JUST AS hurt one way or the other .. I could give a rat's ass if he found love in the act of being unfaithful!!
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someone theyve known and love.... and it s been happening continuously...

a one night stand is just one fucken bad decision.... people always make mistakes...

i ve been cheated on like that before... i got over it...
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edit: I really dont give a fuck.

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It doesn't matter once they cheat their ass has to go,
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I totally agree mrart!! NO excuses!!
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They are all bad and unforgivable. The one that would hurt me the most would be cheating with a loved one. It's just more on a personal level, more emotions and feelings are involved.
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so for those voting with a loved one you wouldnt mind that your partner threw a way a whole relationship for one night?
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Has this happened to you?
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NO! im just wondering.

if my partner did cheat on me i would be very very very very upset esp. cuz i really trust that person.
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The only reason it would matter to me would be the feelings of why cause either way that person didn't respect the relationship, and it was probably a lie if they could just throw it away for one night.
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of course both would be hurtful... but i think a one night stand or a simple kiss with someone or whatever, is something that i, personally, can forgive if i really wanna make a relationship... i feel some people, depending on the situation deserve a second chance...
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i agree, dey screwd it up, n dey gotz 2 go. but i think it hurtz more wen dey cheat wit a friend. cuz a one-night stand, dat wud hurt cuz dey cheated wit sum1, n it mita 'meant nothin' but datz bad. throwin away everythin 4 sum1 dat 'dont mean nethin'. a pazt relationship, u kno thur waz feelingz for da x @ 1 point. dey mite cum bak. u never kno..
but wit dey friend, u trust ur partner wit dey friendz. n dat fact dat dey wud cheat wit a friend, let thoze feelingz grow 4 dem dat shud b 4 u. DAMNZ. datz like, ur not really worth it 2 dem. n not only did dey get da feelingz n let dem b n grow, dey acted on em!! n dat iz like da ultimate betrayal.
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cheating is cheating does not matter how or with who! if a person cheats on you he/she didnt love you that much!
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^^^^ i disagree with that...i think that a person can love somebody a lot and still cheat...
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I don't understand that lizdlt? Please elaborate? Cuz for ME anyway, when you truly "love" someone - you're committed to them - heart, mind, and body .. it would make me vomit at the touch of another man ..
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i understand i am younger and probably not as experienced with love so i guess i am talking from more of an idealistic or theoretical set of believes...(this is my disclaimer)

i just think though that even if you love a person sometimes you are not near them and temptation happens...it could have just been that moment of loneliness or drunkeness or whatever...and the fact that you did not resist tempation does not say anything about the type of love you feel i might say something about will power but not about love...
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i think tht cheatin isz messed up.. its like the most damaging way to hurt a person that you "love" regardless of the situation..
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My thought is that way too often, people put themselves in situations where temptation can be a real threat to their relationship .. and in my opinion only, being drunk and cheating is just an excuse.

Thanx for explaining your point of view, lizdlt.
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well i know that love and feelings for people have strong holds on us. just_dannie i disagree with the being drunk bit only cause a drunk persons words or actions are a sober persons thoughts. maybe i don't cut no slack because of what happen to me
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