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Angry I am worried, scared and angry!!

As I sit and read the posts here on Soy, I get worried. I get scared. I get mad.

Are your posts representative of all that is Chicano in the United States???

Are there really young girls out there having sex at 14 and then all surprised they get pregnant??? Do you really believe you can change that man - into someone who is loving and tender just because you love him???
Have you really fathered 4 kids and never mean to support them???

WTF??

Do you all believe you are living in a music video or something? Or do you believe that you can just rewind the tape of your life and everything will be better?

I mean, exactly who is living your life - a stand in????? Until things get better??

Are there any intelligent Chicano young men or women out there, who have their shit together? The threads on Soy is like looking at your choice of novelas to watch. Hmmmm, should I read about how I got over you, or should I read about how I am expecting twins and have to drop out of Junior High?

I feel angry, because my generation protested a lot and went thru a lot to pave the way to get you guys into college and get a better life. But NOOOOOOOO, you have to mess it up with DRAMA.

I swear, most of the people here are ADDICTED to drama. If you have no drama in your life, you will somehow make some.

And it seems like people don’t know how, or don’t want to learn how to get along with each other. What in the hell happened to common courtesy?

Well, thank-you for letting me get that off my chest. Now, I know there are extenuating circumstances, and people are people and we do have to put up with the retarded ones..........but, got-damn!!! Get over your handicap and make something of yourself. The least you can do is fake it.

And yes, I do mean to put some of you down. And yes, I do think I am better than some of you........LOL just kidding.
But, I do have the advantage of hindsight.
I know my life is not perfect, and my kids did not turn out perfect. But we do the best we can with what we have, hoping and working for a better future............and that is all that can be asked of any of us.

So, tell me, what positive steps have you taken today towards the life you want????
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Yeeeeeeeeesh!!!
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after reading this thread, altho I dont take back one word -------- I feel that maybe I need to go have drink and relax a bit....... what do you say?? LOL

And then again, maybe not
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after reading this thread, altho I dont take back one word -------- I feel that maybe I need to go have drink and relax a bit....... what do you say?? LOL

And then again, maybe not

You go have your drink and don't worry about it....while you're at it have one for me. LOL
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Let me be the first to say (but certainly not the last) that ur a hater!!!!
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after reading this thread, altho I dont take back one word -------- I feel that maybe I need to go have drink and relax a bit....... what do you say?? LOL

And then again, maybe not
Hell No!!! You hit the nail right on the head with your words. Give yourself a big pat on the back!!
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after reading this thread, altho I dont take back one word -------- I feel that maybe I need to go have drink and relax a bit....... what do you say?? LOL

And then again, maybe not

Take two of these and call me in the morning.

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Uhhhhhhhh maybe a couple of drinks.
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LOL ^^^ so, sue me!!
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This is not an over reaction... you don't have to relax. We need more people like you to rock the boat, even if you have to bust some heads to prove your point. Being complacent does not solve our problems or move us forward.


I also believe that this is your first step towards 'crazy cat lady'.
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this is not an over reaction... You don't have to relax. We need more people like you to rock the boat, even if you have to bust some heads to prove your point. Being complacent does not solve our problems or move us forward.


I also believe that this is your first step towards 'crazy cat lady'.
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Yeah Maybe A Couple Of Drinks May Calm You Down ... Maybe There Is Some Drama En Tu Vida Datz Makin You Dat Way? Maybe? Huh? You Okay?
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And it seems like people don’t know how, or don’t want to learn how to get along with each other. What in the hell happened to common courtesy?
And let me add, self-respect. Amen on the Drama! Chavela you are so right on in what you said!
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She Gotz A Point There! There Are Young Girls Out There Getting Pregnant Or Having Sex With Older Guys. We Got To Learn How To Show Ppl That We Want Respect!!!
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Good post, rings true, probably why i dont go into half or most of the threads anymore. Simply because it is the same thing going on over and over.
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What an inspired thread. Obviously the work of a brilliant mind (you know what I'm getting at, Chavela) LOL!
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Kudos, Chavela!
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So, tell me, what positive steps have you taken today towards the life you want????



No kids, tried many drugs, but never had a habit, stayed away from jail (except that one time.lol!), avoid dysfunctional people at all costs (family included) and am slowly working towards a degree.

Am I the pinnacle of success?

No, but I do my best, pursue whats important to me and have an unwavering committment to my own personal happiness
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well dont have kids..... maybe never ... but who knows....
.....hmm... work..... and concentrate on the $$$$..
im not ambiciosa.. or anything.. i want to help out my parents..
in anything....... i've stop paying attention to all the shit that would get me mad..... like when peeps would say something wrong or gosip about me...
.. i dont know.. just live my life..... worrying with wat really matters....
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Chavela. I absolutely agree with you.

Hell I'll have a drink with you!!!
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well dont have kids..... maybe never ... but who knows....
.....hmm... work..... and concentrate on the $$$$..
im not ambiciosa.. or anything.. i want to help out my parents..
in anything....... i've stop paying attention to all the shit that would get me mad..... like when peeps would say something wrong or gosip about me...
.. i dont know.. just live my life..... worrying with wat really matters....
I have noticed that you have been controlling your anger....

And I have noticed that you have changed somehow - changed for the better since when you first started to post here on Soy.

keep it up!
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or should I read about how I am expecting twins and have to drop out of Junior High?


So, tell me, what positive steps have you taken today towards the life you want????
DOES THE THING ABOTU THE TWINS TALKING ABOUT MY POST PORKE IM NOT PREGNANT AND NOY EXPECTING TWINS... I JUST WANTED TO SEE CUTE NAMES THAT MATCH...

UM WHAT STEPS HAVE I TAKEN TO THE LIFE I WANT??? OKAY WELLL IM JUST 14 WITH ALL THESE PRESSURE THESE DAYS IM STILL A VIRGIN IM IN A MAGNET HIGH SCHOOL THAT HAS A CLUSTER PROGRAM O GIVE U A HEAD START IN YOUR CARRER I DOTN DO DRUGS AND NEITHER DO MY FRIENDS...
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I think we have to step back and see what the world sees - when they read our posts here on Soy.

Ask yourselves, is the drama in my life something I am proud of???

Or is it something I should deal with and then move on??
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Well Yeah Some Of The Things You Said Are True..i Mean Was Up With Young Girls Having Kids When They Are Not Ready?...and Yep, People Should Learn To Have Manners, Be Respectful Annd Have Courtesy...but Until This Happens I Also Think That This Site Is Here To Provide Many People With The Opinions Of Others, To Let People Post Their Problems, To Have Some-one Hear You Out...well You Can Get The Point...and Many Of The Times You Can Use This So Instead Of Critisizing People You Can Give Them Advise And Hopefully They Take It And Learn...yeah I Mean There Are Some Post That Are Just Out There But Every One Has A Different Opinion And Sees Thiigs A Different Way...well What I Am Doing To Have A Good Life Right Now, Well I'm Trying To Finish High School. Im Like A Month Away From Graduating And After That Im Going To College, Getting A Job And If I Want To Keep On Pursuing Some Thing I Can Keep On Studyin While Working...i Mean This Is What I Want. I Want To Have A Good Life, With Good Money Not Worrying About Si Me Va A Alcansar And When I Have Kids Some Day I Want To Provide Them With What They Need And Want...but For Now I'm Just Trying To Stay Out Of Trouble.going To School. And Later On Just Keeping Up, Trying To Do Good...
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^^^ That's great to hear, Muneca. You, too, Aztec_Princess. Stick to your goals.

And I can't forget about the KoolArrow!
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