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my friend wants to know if she should abort her baby because she has AIDS.
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...damn...maybe she should,cuz he baby will probably have aids too..but then again im against abortion...
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holy shit! that is a difficult situation. i wouldnt know what to answer to that.

would the baby be born with AIDS?
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it depends on the way it is born in my opinion it's a hard choice. i don't believe in abortion but a baby with AIDS is sad. wow how confusing. but i'll help her through it.
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Does she have HIV or fullblown AIDS?
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if she has aids, wth is she doing getting pregnant? thats really sad. if theres a chance the baby wont get aids or hiv or whatever, i say she should keep it.
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Tough choice. I wouldn't know what to do. I think I would keep it because there's a slight chance the baby won't get AIDS.
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The baby could be born with AIDs, but its not for sure that they will. She is pregnant and should not abort the baby just becuase of that reason.
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Does she have HIV or fullblown AIDS?
Exactly. That was going to be my question too. Ask if she knows the differene between the two and if not, make sure she is informed of what those differences are before she makes any decision.
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WOW she needs to go to the doctors and ask questions because I just had an hiv test done like every year and the doctor told me that if the mother has aids and is preggers there is medication she can take that will help NOT infect the baby. your friend also needs to let her partner/s know she has aids because that is considered umm whats it called attempted murder or something like that. if you know you have it and still mess around and pass it along you are killing someone and its against the law. thats nasty im sorry pero she is nasty. poor baby tell her to have it and give it to me. I dont know if they will give her an abortion some are ify on shit like that because of the sickness she carries.. keep us posted let us know whats up.
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Well did she know that she had AIDS when she started to mess around?
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my friend wants to know if she should abort her baby because she has AIDS.
She can take AIDS drugs and dramatically reduce the risk of AIDS transmission. This has been well-proven.

Personally, I would advocated abortion if I didn't know how long I would be around.
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no why abortion if there is a chance the baby will be fine keep it let it live its not the babies fault the mom was a hoodrata.. plus who knows it might just have the best life ever give it a chance.

abortion no way jose.. im totally against it ..... your woman enough to lay down and make it be woman enough to take care of it.
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no why abortion if there is a chance the baby will be fine keep it let it live its not the babies fault the mom was a hoodrata..

Thats the only people that contract HIV? Goddamn, you're an idiot
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the baby doesnt have to have AIDS even when the mommy has AIDS....but like arriero said....does she know who the baby is going to stay with??



and a small comment about the poll...wouldnt people who have abortions mostly do it "when it is necessary"...i mean i dont think ppl go around having abortions for fun...that could just be me being naive tho
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like everyone else said theres a light chance the baby won't get AIDS.
It's a hard decision, but, i belive in God, and i just wouldnt be able to make the decision, in this case whatever happens is what god wants for us, and i have faith that it will be the best for us. honestly, who am i to end the babys life? and if i do, i would be miserable the rest of my life, and if i die and the baby survives, he wont be happy ether, so in cases like this ill just put my trust in God and everything else, whatever happens eso es lo que Dios quiso, thats just my opinion, i really dont know...
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Does she have HIV or fullblown AIDS?
That's my first question.

These decisions are tough.

What does her doctor recommend or say?
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koolarrow im not an idiot you ass

im just saying what is real.. the doctor told me there is medication that will help the baby survive and not get HIV or aids thats the fact and if the doctor was wrong then call her an idiot you menso

and abortion is out of the question. pinche hoodratas.. grrrrr
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My best advice is to talk to a doctor. See what s/he says and see what different options s/he gives you. Also talk to your parents to see what they say. If the parents say keep, then will they be willing to take care of the baby if something happens to you?

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its not the babies fault the mom was a hoodrata..
That's mean. How do you know that her sex partner had AIDs and didn't tell the girl until it was too late.

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and a small comment about the quote...wouldnt people who have abortions mostly do it "when it is necessary"...i mean i dont think ppl go around having abortions for fun...that could just be me being naive tho
That is what I was thinking right now on the question on the poll? I think that's what pro-life thinks about pro-choice. LOL.
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My best advice is to talk to a doctor. See what s/he says and see what different options s/he gives you. Also talk to your parents to see what they say. If the parents say keep, then will they be willing to take care of the baby if something happens to you?



That's mean. How do you know that her sex partner had AIDs and didn't tell the girl until it was too late.



What is what I was thinking right now on the question on the poll? I think that's what pro-life thinks about pro-choice. LOL.

yea the poll...and yea..its a biased poll!
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no why abortion if there is a chance the baby will be fine keep it let it live its not the babies fault the mom was a hoodrata...


You can get HIV from having sex ONE TIME, with only ONE person, and there are many people who have contracted HIV this way.
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^^^Which is why her post sounds so fuckin ignorant
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Thats the only people that contract HIV? Goddamn, you're an idiot
Here we go again. You're so rude Culero. I mean, I agree with you that's not the only way to contract HIV/AIDS, but damn, you don't gotta be so CULERO. Try friendly, people like it better.

Sadly, he's right sexymamacita, it's not the only way to contract HIV/AIDS.

I also say to speak to the Dr., he/she can determine the chances of the baby getting it.
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Here we go again. You're so rude Culero. I mean, I agree with you that's not the only way to contract HIV/AIDS, but damn, you don't gotta be so CULERO. Try friendly, people like it better.

Sadly, he's right sexymamacita, it's not the only way to contract HIV/AIDS.

I also say to speak to the Dr., he/she can determine the chances of the baby getting it.
And I should care why people think because...?

Please kindly STFU

How's that for friendly?
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And I should care why people think because...?

Please kindly STFU

How's that for friendly?
That's the closest to friendly that koolarrow gets. LOL.
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