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Ahww, i've never dated a fat guy. they were all skinny mofos. kinda weird because i'm not skinny .
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Gordo, flaco, moreno, blanco, alto, chaparro, feito o chulo who the fuck cares as long as que te traten bien that is what matters. I know some of you are thinking HELL NO but just wait till you get older and then you will see the value of what they have in the inside is what really counts.
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Threads like these make it very hard for me to eat better or work out. lol



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Gordo, flaco, moreno, blanco, alto, chaparro, feito o chulo who the fuck cares as long as que te traten bien that is what matters. I know some of you are thinking HELL NO but just wait till you get older and then you will see the value of what they have in the inside is what really counts.


This isnt true. It's just a lame ass cliche.

Physical appearance sways peoples opinions and everyone has a physical type.
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I've never found a big guy that I've liked for more than a friend. I had a crush on my friend when i first met him but now he's a very good buddy of mine.

Size doesn't matter to me but I go for guys in shape because for me...Soccer is a must.
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All that really matters is what is inside their corazon. If you don't have a personality or ethics, it doesn't matter what you look like on the outside.

But, to stay on topic, I have always been attracted to guys with more meat on their bones. I am not attracted to skinny men.
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hmmm... more meat to eat! haha

i like stocky and and chunky guys i find them cute. but still i like bein the fat one in a relationship. lol i like it when bitches hate cause i have what they want.
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^ yea stop smoking weed? thats crazy... lol

girls date me!... cuz i got it like that... my second girlfriend was thick but then she lost weight... she was the same... big girls need love too, dont discriminate against squirrl...
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Threads like these make it very hard for me to eat better or work out. lol
LOL, and I'am sure the the girls who say they like ugly guys because they care more make it harder for you to become better looking too

I dont think I would ever date a guy who I didn't find attractive. I did it once and I will never again. I dont think what a guy has on the inside is all that matters thats a bunch of bull caca. I wouldnt be able to have a romantic realationship with someone I wouldn't want to hold hands, kiss, and hug.
I dont know who said it but somebody said in a thread
"when a guy walks down the street he doesent say oh WOW! look at that girls personality"
I'am going to get alot of critisicm for this but here it goes.....
I honestly think that Big people need to have nice outgoing personalitys because otherwise no one will really look at them as dating material. I guess they need their personality to compensate when people dont find them attractive.
That can go for skinny people but everyone likes the skinny assholes and bitches and not the big ones, Like if the skinny people have a right to be bitchy but not big people.
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i have dated a chubby guy, and for me it doesn't matter. dating a skinny guy or a fat guy doesn't matter as long as you like them.
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I've dated skinny, average, muscular, and heavier guys. Fat Joe-type of heavy is a bit much for me, but I'd take a guy with some meat on his bones over a skinny dude anyday.

...Especially if he has nice eyes, dimples, a great smile, dresses nicely...
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...Especially if he has nice eyes, dimples, a great smile, dresses nicely...

define "nicely"?
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^^Well for some males, that means clothes that aren't retrieved from the laundry basket.

My definition of "dressed nicely" would be a man wearing clean, ironed articles of clothing that not only match, but are appropriate for the occassion and look good on HIM.
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define "nicely"?

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I think she means she wouldn't date a guy who has mayonnaise, catsup, or mustard stains on his shirt. Sorry for you, I guess you’re out of luck.
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I think she means she wouldn't date a guy who has mayonnaise, catsup, or mustard stains on his shirt. Sorry for you, I guess you’re out of luck.
I was thinking that was what he was getting at.
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I dated this one guy who was chubby, and he was a great guy and all but once into our relationship he started saying stuff like ohh i need to go work out, and lose weight, and stuuf like that but he enver went!! and he told me that if i gained weight that he was gonna signed me up for the gym so i'll lose the weght, that he dint like dating fat girls.. i was like WTF? look at you BIG and im with you!! after he said that i was turned off by that and broke up with him... that was so stupid tho.... but yeah i'll date a chubby guy but he cant be insecure....
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Depends what kinda fat.
If theres a solid base to the fat then yea.
IF she staright looking like the Michelin man and has no firmness then no.

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I dated a "chubby" guy he was sweet and very respectful my mother used to say to me "Ay va el 10" porque I am thin and he was big he kind of reminded me of Big Pun. We went out for almost 2 years.
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nope...they tend to be lazy...

and i'm not athletic or anything, but i don't want to waste my day sitting around and/or eating....
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I would if they were the big and tall kind of guys, i have friends like that and they're funny sweet and nice. they also arent lazy, they play soccer and basketball its just some ppl's bodies just wont let them lose wieght.
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intresting question...im no one to say anything cuz well im a little heavy set...i used to be so much bigger...but i mean comming from someone who used to be hella huge... me being fat made me be i guess you can say somewhat a better person cuz its like i know how it is to be made fun of and feel ugly...and with me going through that made me not want to make anyone else feel like that....i think thats why bigger fellas are most of the time sweet as all hell...for me there has to be an attraction...so wheather he's big small huge or whatever it theres something that attracts me to him the why not...at the same time...i like the whole friends getting to know the real person thing, and even if your friends and you dont find him/her attractive...if you get to know eachother then they become attractive to you...so it goes back to the whole...its whats inside that important....but i do like me a bigger man, just cuz i like feelin like a women when he holds me...
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I'm not attracted to fat guys but I do like my men with some meat. I'm pretty active so I would like my partner to join me too. If they're heavy set I would assume that they aren't that active. Plus I want my man to be healthy and not have a heart attack while making love or something.
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I like the tall teddy bear type. those type of guys are my #1 pick.
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i have never crushed on a fat guy... i crushed on somethign you can call chubby but no where near "fat" theres a diference between fat and built/.. i dont have anything against them i guess jsut not my type they make nice friends and some look good but i dotn feel attracted to them...
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i like big guys....they're human teddybears.....huggable
oh ya?!!! hmmmm...

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Why would you hate someone that is fat? Don't do that. Just cause someone's fat does not mean they are less than a human. They deserve the same respect you or I do.
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