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I was recently asked by a friend if I would pay to see her naked (something like that anyway). I answered no. I never have, and never will pay for a girl to show me her blessings (Just as i would never pay a prostitute for sex. It's all about self dignity). She then asked me about strip clubs, which i have to admit, I’ve attended a few clubs. And paid to get in.

She asked me what the difference was, and I found it hard to explain. So I answered the following;

"But see, when it comes to strippers, one knows it is strictly entertainment. Whereas with you and I, there is much more of a (personal) connection. Hence paying to see more then what the relationship calls for is more demeaning then simply paying for casual exotic dance."

My question to you guys, is, does it make a difference? And if so, do you see it along the same lines I do, or differently?
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lmao Well if it truly is a personal connection then your best to pay the cash cause your gonna pay for it anyway later down the line!!!! With cash, time, tears and a couple family jewels!!!!!!
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actually in strip clubs, you're paying much more just to see a tit or kittykat than you would pay for sex.

It depends though, 2 of my friends went to the army and one of them in high school said he would never pay a ho for sex, everyone agreed but we all got drunk one night and he told us that he was so horny overseas in germany that he paid for some booty. In the army/military service I think it's always been like that.
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lmao Well if it truly is a personal connection then your best to pay the cash cause your gonna pay for it anyway later down the line!!!! With cash, time, tears and a couple family jewels!!!!!!

LOL!

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lmao Well if it truly is a personal connection then your best to pay the cash cause your gonna pay for it anyway later down the line!!!! With cash, time, tears and a couple family jewels!!!!!!
Not if its a one night stand, but I do agree. You're paying for it anyway, in a sense.
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pay her 3.95 to see her bobbies
Isn't that how much playboy costs to see boobs plus punany??


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pay her 3.95 to see her bobbies
Isn't that how much playboy costs to see boobs plus punany??


lol
Yeah, but it isnt live, lol.
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pay her 3.95 to see her bobbies
Isn't that how much playboy costs to see boobs plus punany??


lol
Yeah, but it isnt live, lol.
What about an emailed pic? Isn't that the same thing?

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pay her 3.95 to see her bobbies
Isn't that how much playboy costs to see boobs plus punany??


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lmao Punany!!
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I think it's the same thing. paying a friend to see her naked, is the exact same thing as paying for it at a strip club.

Going to a strip club is not in the same league as paying a prostitute for sex.

Paying a friend for sex is the same thing as prostitution.

In relationships it's different. Unless of course your girl demands you give her money or gifts in order for her to have sex with you. In that case it's a form of prostitution.

She should have sex with you if she wants to, not because you bought her things or you are giving her money.

If have to pay your friend money in order to see her naked, then she's basically selling her body, much like a stripper would.
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I think it's the same thing too... paying money is paying money!!

but...

if one of my friends were to ask me that i would tell them no, plus, none of my guy friends will ask me to pay them because they would gladly get naked for me for free with no cost or interests! lol...
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i believe it is the same thing.

but that is kinda bullshit that your friend would want you to pay her to get naked. if she really wants the money tell her to go to the stirp club and do it and she will get more money.

what if you actually knew a stripper or 2, what if you met one and became friends with them after a night out at the strip club? would you still tip her and what not?

i know a few strippers or did anyways, and i would not have paid them outside of the club to get naked. it never really came up anyways. BUT it would be the same thing. my point being, is that you could be friends with a stripper.
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if she really wants the money tell her to go to the stirp club and do it and she will get more money.
that's very true. I would suggest that if you really want to see her naked, pay her now for it. Once she becomes a stripper the price is going way up
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if she really wants the money tell her to go to the stirp club and do it and she will get more money.
that's very true. I would suggest that if you really want to see her naked, pay her now for it. Once she becomes a stripper the price is going way up
oh contrar. when she becomes a stripper it will be cheaper.

when she is a stripper you can get away with giving her a buck to dance in front of you sexually and show her boobies.

pay her now, all she will do is get naked, unless she is into you or something. but all he said was she asked if he would pay to see her naked.
even if you just tip her 5 bucks, still cheaper and more for your money at the strip club, rather then now at home.

but then again, sicne my trip to jERSEY i found out strip joints are different at times.
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Sometimes I see really hot women on the streets and I think about approaching them and offering money to see them naked.

The fact that they're NOT a stripper and just a "regular" girl makes them that much more appealing.

I see no difference between dating and paying for sex. They are one in the same.
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lmao Well if it truly is a personal connection then your best to pay the cash cause your gonna pay for it anyway later down the line!!!! With cash, time, tears and a couple family jewels!!!!!!
You're hardcore, mida! She's right tough, we all paying one way or another. Men have to pay, or he's not a man, unless he gets a woman paying for him.

Then, he's a entrepeneur..and that's alright.

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You're hardcore, mida! She's right tough, we all paying one way or another. Men have to pay, or he's not a man, unless he gets a woman paying for him.

Then, he's a entrepeneur..and that's alright.
haha entrepeneur.....see guys have a way of justifying every damn thing!! Very smart Palpatine
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lmao Well if it truly is a personal connection then your best to pay the cash cause your gonna pay for it anyway later down the line!!!! With cash, time, tears and a couple family jewels!!!!!!
LMAO! True!
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I was recently asked by a friend if I would pay to see her naked (something like that anyway). I answered no. I never have, and never will pay for a girl to show me her blessings (Just as i would never pay a prostitute for sex. It's all about self dignity). She then asked me about strip clubs, which i have to admit, I’ve attended a few clubs. And paid to get in.

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"But see, when it comes to strippers, one knows it is strictly entertainment. Whereas with you and I, there is much more of a (personal) connection. Hence paying to see more then what the relationship calls for is more demeaning then simply paying for casual exotic dance."

My question to you guys, is, does it make a difference? And if so, do you see it along the same lines I do, or differently?
There's no difference, whether you know the girl or not. You pay to see a girl naked. It's up to the women whether she wants you to pay her to see her that way.
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Im such a nasty f**k that I blew almost my whole income tax check($3,600) at a strip club once. Just thought I'd share that.
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I would pay her, she's a good friend I wouldn't mind it. Better then paying complete strangers.
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Im such a nasty f**k that I blew almost my whole income tax check($3,600) at a strip club once. Just thought I'd share that.

Demon has to pay cuz he can't get it for free
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Nina, 20 bucks for a fully nude lap dance. lol.



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