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Miss_Sanchez16 06-25-2005 11:10 PM

HEY U GUYS I NEED HELP A.S.A.P GIRLS PLEASE HELP GUYS TOO!!!
 
HEY WELL I HAVE A PROBLEM I KNOW SOME OF U WILL SAY WHAT A STUPID GIRL BUT O WELL I KNOWSAY WHAT U MOST FEEL WELL IVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR ABOUT 7 MONTHS ON AND OFF I LOVE HIM TO DEATH AND EVERYTHING PERO I HAVE DOUGHTS HES REALLY SWEET HE MET MY PARENTS AND EVERYTHING AND HE GETS GOOD ALONG WITH THEM PERO HES REALLY WEIRD I THINK SOMETIMES HE JUS GETS ME SO MAD BEACAUSE WHEN HE SEES A GIRL HELL JUST SAY DAMN SHES HOT OR SOME STUPID COMMENTS LIKE THAT ALSO HE REALLY HAS A WEIRD SCHECHULE HE WORKS OVERNIGHT SO HE SLEEPS IN THE DAY TIME AND WELL WE HARDLY SPEND TIME TOGETHER BECAUSE WHEN IM HOME HES WORKING AND WHEN HES HOME IM AT SCHOOL SO THERE WERE TIMESA WHEN I HAD TO DITCH BUT THE FIRST TIME I BROKE UP WITH HIM IS BECAUSE WHEN I CALLED HIM ONCE HIS ANSWEING MACHINE PICKED UP AND IT SAID LEAVE UR NAME # AND MESSAGE AND ILL GET BACK AT U AND IF UR ANABELL I LOVE YOU AND WELL LETS SAY IM NOT ANABELL !!!!!!!!!!! I WAS SO MAD I BROKE UP WITH HIM AND WELL I BROKE UP WITH HIM A SECOND TIME BUT WE DONT GET BACKTOGETHER CAUSE I BEG HIM BACK I MEAN I DID MISS HIM BUT HE WOULD BE THE ONE CALLING SAYING I LOVE U I WANNA BE WITH U AND HES DONE THIS TWICE ALREADY AND WELL I DUNNO WHAT TO DO AND WELL I UNDERSTAND THAT THE GUY SHOULDNT PAY FOR EVERYTHING ITS A RELATIONSHIP IN BETWEEN 2 BUT I DUNNO WE HELP EACHOTHER OUT I GUESS, WE HAVENT HAD SEX WITH HIMN CAUSE IM STILL A VIRGIN CAN CAUSE IM 22 SCARED TO END UP PREGNANT IM 2 YOUNG WELL I KNOW IF I ENEDED UP PREGNANT BY HIM I WOULDNT STTRUGLE THAT MUCH CAUSE HE HAS A JOB A NICE CAR HES A SO CALL "BALLER" HE ONLY LIKES THE BEST AND HES TOLD ME IF IT HAPENS IT HAPPENS PERO HE MAKES ME FEEL BAD CAUSE HE SAYD WHY U DONT WANNA HAVE MY KID AND I JUST THINK U KNOW IM ONLY 17 AND HES 21 IM2 YOUNG SO I DUNNO IVE HEARD FROM FRIENDS THAT IM NOT THE ONLY ONE THIS AND THAT BUT IVE NEVER ACTUALLY CAUGHT HIM IN THE ACT OF CHEATING U KNOW BUT MY FRIEND SAW HIM PICK UP ANOTHER GIRL FROM SCHOOL BUT UT WAS WHEN WE WERE BROKEN UP SO I DONT TRIP U KNOW PERO I DO WANNA LOOSE IT TO HIM CAUSE I LOVE HIM ITS NOT LIKE I JUST MET HIMAND IM GONNA FUCK HIM AND WE HAVE THE KINDA RELATIONSHIP LIKE WE CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING IM NOT SHY AROUND HIM EVEN HE TOLD ME E GLAD WE CAN TALK LIKE FRIENDS AND HE DOESNT HAVE TO ACT TO BE SOMETHING HES NOT SO GUYS PLEASE HELP ME SHOPULD I SATY WITH THIS GUY OR NOT WASTE MY TIME AND JUST GO ON THE LOOK FOR ANOTHER ONE

Preciouz_MyZz-G 06-25-2005 11:19 PM

:cry: Dayum Gurl I'm sorry... Did u ask him who Anabell was?? Does he act weird when he's with you? U gotta ask yourself a lot of questions...

U know what's been the best way to catch a cheating guy for me? Ask him questions, and ask him the same questions over and over again, but change up the words to where he cant notice it's the same question...Keep insisting, and if he changes up his story, then u know :twisted: ...It'z worked for me...N i learned that from an african american homegurl of mine...WOW DID SHE QUESTION her man...LOL.... Question YOURSELF then question HIM based on wut YOU'VE concluded, but dont JUMP INTO any bad conclusions until you've ANALIZED his responses REALLY well... I hope that workz...N I hope u get more repliez on here...BEZT OF LUCK GURL... :)

YolotlXicana 06-25-2005 11:37 PM

Sounds like you have been through a lot with this guy but...
it sounds like he was being disrespectful to you ooing and aawing about other girls in front of you, especially if he knew it would hurt your feelings.
If he's leaving messages for some other girl while he is with you, that's not cool either. Maybe you should listen to your friends on this one.

Some guys and girls will keep you around if it benefits them and it doesn't sound like that's what you want...sounds like you really care for this guy and he doesn't seem to realize that.

Hope you don't mind me asking but is this your first really serious relationship? Sometimes they can be overwhelming. If you find yourself rationalizing his actions and making excuses for his negative behavior, then it's time to re-evaluate the relationship.

There are plenty of gentelmen who could be treating you much better, you deserve that! I would tell you, if you've tried to see past his faults but still feel uncomfortable with his actions, stop wasting your time. But, If he's realized how special you are and treats you with respect, then keep him.

LaTweety 06-26-2005 09:01 AM

FROM WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT THAT GIRL ANABELL,....IT SEEMS TO ME THAT HE'S PROBABLY A PLAYA(maybe or maybe not) AND IF THIS IS SOOOO I THINK ITZ BETTER IF YOU JUST MOVED ON. I KNOW IT WON'T BE EASY( because i went trew it) but i tHINK that you should try it.
IF HE REALLY LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU LOVE HIM, HE WOULDN'T BE DISRESPECTFUL TO YOU. HE WOULDN'T BE LOOKING AT OTHER GIRLS WHILE BEING WITH YOU.
MAYBE HE DOES LOVE YOU BUT NOT AS MUCH AS YOU LOVE HIM!......IF I WAS YOU I WOULD ASK HIM STRAIGHT UP,'' DO U LOVE ME?.......DO U HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR ME AT ALL?.......IF U DO HAVE FEELINGS FOR ME, THAN WHY DO U TREAT ME THE WAY U DO?.....
AFTER YOU GET SOME ANSWERS THEN U DECIDE WHAT TO DO!

Honey619 06-26-2005 11:29 AM

from me opiniom, you should look for someone else theres millions of guys pero no todos son i igulaes. And trust me youll get over him. :wink:

P1NkT3ArZ 06-26-2005 11:32 AM

DAZZ MEAN U SEEM REALY NICE WIT HIM N EVERYTHIN I SAY TALK TO HIM TELL EM HOW U FEEL AND IF HE KEEPS BEING DA SAME WAY DEN LEAVE HIM

MiAmorMiVidaLoca 06-26-2005 11:46 AM

I agree with everyone else .

Islas 07-01-2005 05:44 AM

Hey gurlie...well forget about him.

1* That whole Anabell message should've been the last thing u put up with.
2*No guy has the right to pressure you to skip school
3*If he can't respect your decision of not wanting to have sex FORGET HIM

I've had a lot of friends like you. THey will always go back to their "man". Hes no real man if he can't respect your feelings. If he really cared for you he would WANT you to have the best time of your life and be free during your teen years. He would also want you to get an education.

Gurlie jus don't go back to him ok? I wish you the best

ESA-HAZY 07-03-2005 02:18 PM

Ey esa me and my vato kinda going through the same thang wit the work schedules he goes at 2 in the morning and gets off around 3 pero he drives an hour back here and so he get back around 4 and i go to work around 4 get off around 10 or 11 so we barely have time to see each other pero we work around it and shit thang is i thought i was pregnant tambien and his like i be there and everythang no problem thang is his gonig to mexico in a couple of month so i unno what the fuck .... wit you though esa i unno if it sound like tu novio is willing to work it out..maybe he jsut fucking aroun wit the anabell thang pero thats hella fuck up an u 17 n everythang he 21? is big difference... is hard yeah pero maybe you should let him go cuz when it get to the point where u are doing nada but break up every weak it start to wear you down i know was like that on and off for 4 years me n this other vato finnaly we just decide to be friend you know wasnt working out pero what ever u feel is best...

LadyBlue 07-03-2005 02:52 PM

hey looks like a hard situation well my opinion he seems like a player, okay yall broke up and then his picking up a gurl from school, then that gurl Anabell and he be ckecking out gurls inur presence thats not good like my vato said "respecto es querer" si el de verdad te quiere then he should respect u in each and every way in ur feelings, and physicaly si de verdad te quiere he would do anything not to hurt u or feel bad. Yo creo q u should just give ur self some time some space think about everything lo q te a dicho como actua and especialy think about u, ask ur seld si de verdad lo quieres. Real love vence cualquier cosa and if yall are menat to be together than time will tell ten paciencia.
And in the other hand maybe he loves u pero no se da cuenta hes young and yeah some mans have not mature and they still like to be a lil player, like i said give it time, like right now dont worried about him worried about u try to be happy contigo misma and everything else se areglara solito.
I hope u get more replies from soychicabo members y hopefully te sirve and good luck.
:D

o yeah im gonan used Preciouz_MyZz-G strategy to get the true out :P thanks for the tip

YUMA 07-03-2005 03:02 PM

:? y r u still wit him move on mija i understand u love him but stop n think do u really wana have strong feelings for someone like dat NO i wouldnt!
look it sounds to me sorry to say that this guy is juz using u he thinks bcuz ur young he can manage u as he feels but u should prove him wrong put limits to him talk wit each other n tell him how u feel towards the situation !
if he loves or has any feelings towards u watsoever if not move on girly quit wastin time n gettin hurt by dum foos! n if u feel ur not ready for sex then dont do its ur body not his n no matter wat dont go over ur limits continue to have respect for urself as uve been having until u feel ur ready !


my advice total is LEAVE THE SON OF A GUN!

sexybabysexyone 07-03-2005 06:51 PM

You
 
:cry: I'm really sorry have you asked him why he acts so weird? You really got to think are you willing to put yor heart in the line to stay with somebody that might break it again? Ask your self some questions like that to your self and see how you respond!I really am sorry :cry: :(

LW_INA170 07-03-2005 07:55 PM

dammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
i would had already left his poor ass.
hells no if i were u i get right back..i mean what goes around comes around
anyways ..nah he aint worth ur time girl
i have 2yrs and two months n 2 months with my man
and if he was to do that to me ........awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :evil: :evil:
i would had dumped him
i dont play that kind of shits!!!
well it all up 2 u girl :roll: Dump him 8)

lachicananena89 07-03-2005 08:47 PM

wow tha guy sounds weird LOL i agree with everyone else why dont u leave him? if u wanna stay with him u need t o tell him to get his shit together and stop playing around thats what i would have done but he might be one of them guyes who loves to make there gurls jelouse and stuff i dont know due what u think is right and find a man stop playing around with boys girl youll find a better guy who will treat u right :D

demon 03-06-2009 03:00 PM

Re: HEY U GUYS I NEED HELP A.S.A.P GIRLS PLEASE HELP GUYS TOO!!!
 
*bump* He's a so called "baller" haha

Oldies Rule Forever1 03-06-2009 03:08 PM

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lol, 'weird'.

Hes just a regular dude who likes pussy.

Not weird at all.


Great bump demon.

I love reading these types of pendejadas.

demon 03-06-2009 03:32 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Oldies Rule Forever1 (Post 1203683)
lol, 'weird'.

Hes just a regular dude who likes pussy.

Not weird at all.


Great bump demon.

I love reading these types of pendejadas.

:lol: @ "pendejas" Dont forget she'd be set because the "baller" has a good job.

XxX 03-06-2009 03:37 PM

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damn there alot of old ass niggas in this thread. lol

Oldies Rule Forever1 03-06-2009 03:51 PM

Re: HEY U GUYS I NEED HELP A.S.A.P GIRLS PLEASE HELP GUYS TOO!!!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by demon (Post 1203718)
:lol: @ "pendejas" Dont forget she'd be set because the "baller" has a good job.

lol,

The whole point of being a "baller", is to not have a job.

Fawking kids these days. Got all kinds of shit screwed up.


Reminds me of my niece who said her friend was "pimp".

I asked her why she would say that,

"because he talks with alot of girls". She was about 12 at the time.


I said, "mija, go tell your dad to smack you".

Ralo El Dorado 03-06-2009 03:54 PM

Re: HEY U GUYS I NEED HELP A.S.A.P GIRLS PLEASE HELP GUYS TOO!!!
 
I didn't even bother wasting my time reading the first post since it was in ALL CAPS!!!! :mad:

MiSS MAGGiE 03-07-2009 02:01 AM

Re: HEY U GUYS I NEED HELP A.S.A.P GIRLS PLEASE HELP GUYS TOO!!!
 
Lol my stupid ass thinking its a new thread. Until I checked the date duh!!
Lol.
Reminds me of a thread another dumbass posted...Oh yea! Me! Lol.

Lil_JRO 03-07-2009 02:20 AM

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i wonder how long did it take after this post before she did end up gettin knocked up by the man and then him walkin out on her?? hmm wanna post a survey and people make they bets?????????? lol

nina_bonita 03-07-2009 08:38 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss_Sanchez16 (Post 160267)
PERO HES REALLY WEIRD

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss_Sanchez16 (Post 160267)
WEIRD

i like weirdo's
Edit:fixed
:mrgreen:
Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss_Sanchez16 (Post 160267)
SOMETIMES HE JUS GETS ME SO MAD BEACAUSE WHEN HE SEES A GIRL HELL JUST SAY DAMN SHES HOT

i'd be like "Damn... she is hawt...i'd so fu*k her"
:mrgreen:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss_Sanchez16 (Post 160267)
LEAVE UR NAME # AND MESSAGE AND ILL GET BACK AT U AND IF UR ANABELL I LOVE YOU AND WELL LETS SAY IM NOT ANABELL

:lol:
fucked up...

esmo 03-07-2009 09:02 AM

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you betta leave that, u dont need that dude in yurr life girl

demon 03-07-2009 11:02 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by nina_bonita (Post 1204364)
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i'd be like "Damn... she is hawt...i'd so fu*k her"
:mrgreen:

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:lol:
fucked up...

Is a "weirod" worse than a weirdo Nina????


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