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I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half. He's from Mexico and he is as jealous as they come. Being of a Hispanic family, I knew that they tend to be jealous, but Mexicans are far worse than Chicanos! Everytime we get into an arguement because he's jealous of something stupid, his answer is just like "Mira baby, I'm Mexican, that's just how my people are. That's all there is to it!" If some other guy looks at me, he's about ready to kill him on the spot, I just don't understand why that much jealousy is necessary.

One you *please* explain to me why you all so overly protective/jealous!

And also! How do u know when your man is being sincere?? It's hard to tell with Mexicans.
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i think theres jeleosy in any race.

get a new man thata ctually trusts you thats all there is too it!
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Or maybe you just attract and are also attracted to the wrong guy.
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aww girl I know what you mean hahaha pinche selosos..


I dont get it either..
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Could it be the Machismo?

Or could it be he's very insecure with himself???

Or both?
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I say both framos...
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I was reading a book called The Mexicans, and it talked about that on there...It said something about insecurity and machismo that almost every Mexican dude has that Macho mentality...but its msotly insecurity...so that is why they cheat ..............blahblahblah
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I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half. He's from Mexico and he is as jealous as they come. Being of a Hispanic family, I knew that they tend to be jealous, but Mexicans are far worse than Chicanos! Everytime we get into an arguement because he's jealous of something stupid, his answer is just like "Mira baby, I'm Mexican, that's just how my people are. That's all there is to it!" If some other guy looks at me, he's about ready to kill him on the spot, I just don't understand why that much jealousy is necessary.

One you *please* explain to me why you all so overly protective/jealous!

And also! How do u know when your man is being sincere?? It's hard to tell with Mexicans.
this overgenarlization of the mexican people is uh distrubing and a little bit racist IMO....
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you got to either love them or leave them..
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I am a certified facilitator for 52 week men's domestic violence perpetrator groups, and it all boils down to power and control. Lizdlt is right, men's (and sometimes womens') issues with power and control cross all racial, financial, national, ethnic, gender,educational, age boundaries. There are numerous reasons why the perception is out there that certain groups of people participate in domestic violence more than others, but that is just not true (as proven by statistics and countless studies). Do you think that the DV rates in black communities in Detroit, white communities in Tennesee, Chinese communities in San Francisco, or Mexican communities in Los Angeles are any different? Not really..............about the same......it's just stereotypes that keep the idea going that Mexicans are more jealous/violent.....and sometimes we are the ones that actually perpetuate those stereotypes.
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thank you LARAZA...i understand that there is stereotypes...but to go on a chicano website and ask why those stereotypes are true without having it be questioned is not right.
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I couldn't have said why this is so damn true better than George Lopez has:

George lopez Latin kings of comedy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2WmvC...elated&search=

George lopez Latin kings of comedy part 2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GFNZ9iwHsM&NR
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What i dont get is that is he is so fucking jealous and it bugs you so fucking much, WHY THE FUCK YOU STILL WITH HIM? No mater what the fuck the race is.

And this happens in all races, plain and simple. They get like this because you let them. You do not have to put up with it, but you choose to and as such keep up the cycle.
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Default Re: Why are Mexicans *so* incredibly jealous???

FIRST of all, I wasn't trying to disrespect anybody, and the thought of stereotyping didn't even cross my mind when I posted the question, so some of the attitudes ain't necessary and you shouldn't get offended so easily, but thanks to you who helped me understand better and replied with *respect*, framos, sexymamacita & philly!
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i say its because they are insecure with themselves.

my bf doesnt really get jealous of other guys

he gets jealous of my friends!
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no problema
my husband is like that really bad very jealous and what not he is mexican straight from Sinaloa and yeah neilo I understand what you mean in your post but sometimes its not that easy now if I was with him for a little while and saw this hell yeah I would of bounced along time ago but he started being like this later on in the relationship before he could give a shit where i was, who i was with or what i was doing because his machismo way was he was with his friends and that was it I was so so fkn in love with this man I would of kissed his culo if he told me to but as time went on the tables turned and now he is so very jealous possesive and dumb I have tried to get away but he is a stalker and makes my life difficult and yeah i have gotten a restraining order on him but nothing would of been done to him as long as he staied his distance as stated on the order and there were no bumps and bruises on me. the reason I went back was financial I couldnt make it on my own with what I was making.. so its not easy at all and even more so when kids are involved.. but... I do agree this is not just mexicans that are like this I have seen it in alot of other races..

I still dont understand it..
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Yeah, I guess ur right though. I guess it's not just mex.chic guys like that, that's everybody, but men in general (not all) I just don't understand why they're insecure. The novio gets a lil jealous of my friends (girls) sometimes too, isn't that weird??
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yean so does mine.. I cant have guy friends cause im fkng them I cant have girl friends cause im fkng them I cant have gay guy friends cause its just wrong and I cant have gay girl friends cause im with them wtf hahaha isnt that funny? I do what I want with whom I want he either loves it or leave me I dont care no more.. its funny how the tables are turned very funny.. so now he has the choice he can leave or stay cause its my time now.. and he gets mad cause im not the jealous type at all.. guys are just like girls they are wierd..
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Girls are about as equal at being jealous if not more so.
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exactly ^^ but im not how come? is it cause I dont care? is it cause Im not "in love" with him? how come im not jealous when he is talking to females or looks at other females? he says because I dont love him. donde no hay selos no hay amor is what he says..



oh well im ready for vegas though hahaha
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exactly ^^ but im not how come? is it cause I dont care? is it cause Im not "in love" with him? how come im not jealous when he is talking to females or looks at other females? he says because I dont love him. donde no hay selos no hay amor is what he says..



oh well im ready for vegas though hahaha
ure just secure and hes full of it..

next time tell him yeah i dont love you.
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i have and I do tell him that.. but he dont care hahaha

I tell him "I do love you but im not IN love with you no more"

I care if he dies yeah but I dont care if he was to leave me for someone else.. its sad but oh well he made me who I am and made me feel what I feel for him.. I was so stupid back then man you guys have no idea hahaha bien pendeja me tenia
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exactly ^^ but im not how come? is it cause I dont care? is it cause Im not "in love" with him? how come im not jealous when he is talking to females or looks at other females? he says because I dont love him. donde no hay selos no hay amor is what he says..
I dont get jealous either, but i dont think it is because i dont care for someone. Maybe it is because i dont see a reason to be jealous. NO matter how jealous i may be, it wont help things and in the end will probably make things worse. But who knows, that is an explaination from my adulthood i guess, but i have never been a jealous person when i was young either, i can not explain it back then though.
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Maybe I'm not Mexican enough, but I'm not really the jealous type.

To suggest that jealousy is related to race or ethnicity is asinine.
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asinine
1.foolish, unintelligent, or silly; stupid: It is surprising that supposedly intelligent people can make such asinine statements. 2.of or like an ass: asinine obstinacy; asinine features.
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